A tradition that will last Something Old Something New

"Let's start with the classics " "Something old something new something borrowed something blue." You might have heard it a lot. But where did it come from and why is it still important?

This custom is based on an old English rhyme that talks about good luck and success. The past the future happiness borrowed from a loved one and loyalty are all represented by different things. It's simple but it works.

Old Wear something from your family like your grandmother's earrings. It's more than just jewelry it's a connection to your past and a love that will last forever.

Jumping the Broom A Love Leap

Jumping the broom is a tradition with deep cultural roots. This has been going on in African American neighborhoods since the 1800s. It means getting rid of the old things in life so that new ones can come in.

But don't think of it as just a footnote in history. It's bright lively and just right for adding some excitement to your wedding.

How do you put this in? At the end of your ceremony the couple should jump over a decorated broom. It's a happy time a sign that you're ready to start a new life together. You can put things on the broom that are special to both of you like flowers from both of your hometowns or ribbons that match the colors of your wedding.

The Wedding Veil Secrets Uncovered

The veil is a must have for weddings isn't it? You might think it's just a pretty piece of jewelry but it has a long and interesting history and a lot of superstitions surrounding it. The veil used to mean more than just fashion it also meant safety and mystery.

People in ancient Rome thought that the veil kept evil spirits away. Do you believe that? Walking down the aisle with a shower of tulle over your head was a way to keep your peace and virtue. That's interesting!

Want to put your own spin on it? Think about a veil that has been in the family for a long time or one that tells a story. You could add lace from your mother's dress to your veil or a soft color to give it a modern look.

Breaking Bread Community and Communion

There is a way for each culture to share food that brings people together. For example in Italian and Greek cultures breaking bread at weddings is not just about the food it's also about bringing people together.

When you break bread together you invite everyone at your wedding to join a holy circle of family and friends. It stands for beauty and warmth that includes everyone.

Bring this to your wedding and have a special moment when you "break bread." Maybe it's giving guests a special loaf of bread that you made yourself at the reception. How about a special Polish "bread and salt" ceremony for a more elaborate ceremony? Parents give the couple bread (so they never go hungry) and salt (for when things get tough). It has a lot of feeling and love.

The Bouquet Toss A Future Full of Flowers

It's time to throw the bouquet now. We've all seen this one and maybe even tried to catch it at some point! Of course it's fun but it's been around for a long time like many traditions. People say that the toss brings good luck to people who want to find love.

It's a loud and fun time that can make a reception more fun. A lot of brides love this tradition but it's okay if you don't. Tradition is always changing.

Have a "Anniversary Dance" in mind. The guests who have been married the longest get the bouquet as a sign of lasting love just like the bouquet toss.

Or give your bouquet to someone to show you care. It could be a grandmother a mentor or even the friend who helped you tie a lot of bows for invitations.

If you decide to toss pick flowers that have meaning. Add flowers from your childhood garden or flowers with special meanings like lavender for devotion or daisies for innocence.

You're not just planning a wedding by following these different customs and beliefs. You're putting together a story a beautiful mosaic of the past present and future—a tapestry of love luck and shared stories. Who knew something as simple as a wedding could hold such monumental meaning?