Choose the right barn for your event

So you've decided on a barn. That's a good choice! But not every barn is the same. You should look for one that goes with the style of your vintage. The building's history gives it character. There are lots of stories inside barns that would go well with your wedding story. You can find some ideas and advice on where to have your wedding at The Knot.

Look for things like wooden floors or beams that show through that give off a rustic feel without being too obvious. A barn should feel both open and cozy with enough space for your guests to be comfortable but still feel close to you. Learn about the amenities that are available. Not all barns have the right amenities so check to see if you need to bring in food portable toilets or a generator to power them.

Look at how the natural light changes in the room. It can help you create the dreamy soft look that most people think of when they think of vintage styles. The sunlight coming through the barn's windows during the day could make the wedding even more beautiful. When it gets dark strings of Edison bulbs or old lanterns can make the barn feel like a fairy tale.

Decorations that make the old look stay

Let's start putting up decorations! It's not about having a lot of stuff it's about putting things together in a smart way. Use soft pastels muted blushes and maybe a little gold to start. These colors will remind you of the past. Your decor should softly say "vintage " not loudly. Abstraction Is When I Design Giant Death Creatures and Attraction Is ... has a guide that will help you learn more about color palettes.

Think about how things feel and how many layers they have. A lace tablecloth burlap accents and maybe some old furniture to look at. You can find things like old suitcases typewriters or gramophones at thrift stores or even in your family's attic. These pieces often connect the past and can make a room look great.

Your flowers also play a big part in the theme. Mixing wildflowers or roses with green plants will give you a natural look. Put them in different glass vases or mason jars to make them look more unique. Don't forget to put some flowers in the guest areas. You could put garlands on long wooden tables or small sprigs in the napkins of your guests.

Clothes and accessories that will always be in style

Let's talk about clothes which are the best way to show off your old school style. Imagine a dress that reminds you of a time long ago like one with lace or a shape that looks like old Hollywood glam. Not a fan of the usual? What do you think of dresses that are knee length or have sleeves like Grace Kelly? If you go to Vogue you can get more ideas for styles.

A classic suit or a three piece suit with a vintage twist would be great for the groom. If you want to be bold you could even wear a fedora bow ties and suspenders. To keep the look of the time use darker colors like charcoal navy or even a light gray.

Things you wear can also tell a story. Adding brooches pearls or hairpieces to a simple dress can make it look great. A vintage watch or cufflinks can really help the groom.

Making a menu that people will remember with a rustic touch

Let's look at the menu now. Your decorations and food can both show off your theme. Think of a filling but stylish meal that makes your guests feel at home. Things that are close by can taste better and more real. You could get some ideas from the guide on Epicurious.

Start by thinking about charcuterie boards with artisanal cheeses and cured meats. It's the right amount of rustic style. For the main course you can choose from slow roasted meats salads made with fresh farm vegetables or chicken with herbs.

This is where you can really let your mind go wild the dessert. What do you think about a cake with no frosting and fresh flowers or fruit on top? Or a table full of pies and tarts that look like they were made at home? It's also important to pick the right wine or craft beer to go with your food especially if you're in a barn where the colors are probably earthy.

Music and fun things to do to keep the memories alive

Last but not least let's talk about fun. The music you pick will make or break your party. A live band playing jazz swing or even a string quartet can bring back memories of a time long gone. If you want a mix tell the DJ to play some old songs and some new ones. Everyone loves the sound of a needle dropping on a record.

How about setting up a photo booth with old fashioned props for some interactive fun? Guests will love putting on hats feathers and gloves and posing in sepia toned glory. You could even put up a projection screen to show old movies or family photos. This would make the room feel cozy and give people something to talk about. For some playlist ideas that will get everyone tapping their toes check out Rolling Stone's guide.

Don't forget how powerful stories can be. Consider hiring a local storyteller or performer to entertain during cocktail hour with tales or music that might have floated through the venue in its heyday. Or maybe you project a little slideshow of family pictures reminding everyone of the journey that led to this big day.

With these elements you're not just hosting a wedding—you're inviting your friends and family to step back in time to experience a world where charm and warmth reign supreme.

In the end your vintage barn wedding will be a reflection of you—your dreams your memories and the new path you re setting on together. Feel free to play be bold and blend your own history with the barn's rich tapestry. Your wedding is the story you pen together and surely it ll be one for the ages.