How to Choose the Perfect Wine Pairings for Your Wedding

September 21, 2025

Choosing the right wine for your wedding can be just as fun as making the guest list. No matter how long you've been a sommelier or how new you are to wine, finding the right wine pairings will make your big day unforgettable. This guide will help you finish this fun job.

Learning the Basics of Wine Pairing

Let's get going. The key to pairing wine is to find a balance of tastes. It's like figuring out what notes to play in music. The point is to use wine to bring out or contrast the flavors of the food so that the meal tastes better. Light wines go well with light foods and bold wines go well with heavy foods. For example a zesty Sauvignon Blanc goes well with foods that are citrusy and a strong Cabernet Sauvignon goes well with rich red meat.

But it's not just about red and white meat. Adding wines like sparkling wines and rosé can make things more fun. Rosé has a lot of different flavors so it goes well with a lot of different foods from savory duck to delicate seafood. Sparkling wines are a great way to start a meal because their bubbles and acidity can clean and refresh the mouth.

The four S's of wine tasting are see swirl smell and sip. You can tell what kind of wine it is by the color the smell and the taste. This isn't just for experts it's a way to get to know the wine better and feel more connected to what you're serving.

Thinking about your menu

First have a meal. After that have some wine. The wine shouldn't take away from the food you chose. The food and wine should go well together. Look at the flavors and ingredients on your menu to help you pick wines that will go well with your food.

Think about the season. Are you getting married in the summer and serving light fresh food? Or are you getting married in the winter and serving rich warm food? During the summer light white wines and cool rosés are great options. Reds and full bodied whites that are comforting are better in the fall or winter.

Now let's talk about sauces. Sauces can really change how well wine goes with food. You need a wine with enough acidity to cut through the richness of creamy and buttery sauces. Chardonnay and Viognier are both good options. But if you eat spicy food you might need a sweeter wine like a Riesling to cool it down.

Picking wines that your guests will enjoy

It's your wedding day but it's also about the people who are there. If you know what they like you can make your party even better. Think about the people who will be there. Do they like things from the old world or things from the new world? You can pick something more personal if you know these small differences.

You should have a variety of wines on your list. There is something for everyone because the selection includes reds whites and a fun sparkling wine. You could set up a wine bar at the reception where guests can choose their own adventure. This would make the wine tasting a fun part of the event.

A detailed wine menu with tasting notes can make the experience better for people who are new to wine. When you tell guests about the wine's history or the best foods to go with it they might want to try something new.

Sticking to Your Budget

Weddings can be very expensive so it's a good idea to be creative with the wine budget. You don't have to spend a lot of money on a good wine. Make a budget early on and remember that just because something costs more doesn't mean it's better. Put quality ahead of quantity. Having a few really good wines is better than having a lot of okay ones.

Don't just think about the big names think about grape types or areas that aren't as well known. Portugal and the Languedoc region of France are two places where you can find good wines at a fair price.

Buy a lot. If you're planning a big wedding many stores will give you a discount if you buy a lot of things at once.

Making an event that people will remember

Wine is a big part of your wedding which is a series of events. It's all about creating lasting memories. A signature wine is one way to do this. It's a special bottle that goes with your theme or tells the story of your trip. A bottle of wine from the place where you met or the first place you went on vacation together?

Customized wine labels can make a gift more special and help guests remember it. You can write down the words to your favorite song a special date or just your names and the date of your wedding. Guests will appreciate how much thought you put into these little things.

Last but not least you might want to have a pre tasting with your wedding party. Not only do you want to make sure the wines go well with your food but this is also a fun way to celebrate before the wedding. It could even be a special part of your rehearsal dinner.

Check out How to Host the Best Wine Tasting Party Ever for creative ideas on how to present wine at weddings to get some ideas for how to make your wine experience stand out.

Picking out the wines for your wedding should be a fun part of the planning process. Enjoy the ride raise a glass to each choice and remember that the best wine pairing is one that feels right for you and your guests. Here's to a day that's full of love and taste!