Choosing the Right Place

Finding the right place is very important. This is where the line between modern and old fashioned begins. Barns are a popular choice but there are also other options like renovated farmhouses or vineyard spaces. These places have a natural old fashioned feel but you can make them look more modern with smart decor and style.

Think about how easy it will be for your guests to get there. Being rustic doesn't mean you have to be far away. Look for places that are close to cities but still have the charm of the country. Your guests will appreciate how simple it is.

You should also think about places that can be used for more than one thing. Open areas are great for modern tents and creative layouts because they let you mix rustic charm with modern style. When looking for a place to hold an event always ask about the amenities. You'll be glad you chose a place with modern bathrooms and good lighting later.

Mixing old and new decor to make it look good

Decor really brings your creative vision to life. Mason jars and hay bales are two things that come to mind when you think of rustic decor. On the other hand modern style is usually simple and clean. The most important thing is to start with rustic things and then add more modern ones.

Think about flowers that are in style right now. It's nice to have wildflowers in mason jars but adding structured elegant flowers can make your tablescapes even better. Put soft green plants in metal or glass vases to make them look more natural and appealing to both modern and rustic tastes.

Furniture is also very important. Wooden tables without tablecloths look beautiful on their own and modern chairs make the look more interesting. The light can also help set the mood. Hanging Edison bulbs or string lights from the ceiling can make a room look rustic and stylish at the same time and they can also give it a soft romantic glow.

A food experience that ties together themes

The food and drinks at your wedding can really fit in with the modern rustic theme. Think about how you can make your menu look and feel sleek while still showing off hearty country flavors.

Start with drinks. You could serve cocktails in mason jars but with a twist like an old fashioned with a bubble of smoke on top. Old fashioned comfort foods with a modern twist make a great statement for the meal. Mini chicken and waffles or truffle mac and cheese are two examples.

Instead of a formal dinner you could serve these from food trucks or stations. This makes things more relaxed and encourages people to get to know each other but it still feels modern. The rustic look goes well with a naked cake topped with fresh local fruits. It also looks modern and classy.

Clothes That Fit Well

The clothes you and your wedding party wear can help bring the rustic and modern themes together even more. Think of classic cuts with a modern twist and fabrics that feel good to wear.

For the bride a simple dress with lace or flowers is a great choice for a rustic setting. A big bow or trendy minimalist accessories are modern touches that make the look new. Bridesmaids can wear colors that go well with the season in your area.

Tweed suits or even suspenders and rolled up sleeves are great for the groom and groomsmen in the rustic setting. But to make it more fun add some modern touches like slim ties with cool prints or sleek leather shoes.

Creating an Atmosphere with Personal Touches

Your wedding should tell the story of your relationship so make it unique by adding things that show off who you are. What do you think about putting up a wall of pictures that shows how far you've come together? But instead of a plain board hang those special pictures on twine with small clothespins to make them look like they belong in the country.

There will be both live acoustic music and a DJ playing modern hits which will make both traditionalists and partygoers happy. As gifts you could give your guests homemade treats like small batch jams or artisanal honey. It goes well with the rustic setting and makes it feel more personal.

The ceremony itself is another chance to mix styles. Pick out modern readings or music and then say your vows under an arch made of branches with flowing fabrics and simple flower arrangements.

Remember that your wedding is yours in the end. These tips are meant to help you but your wedding should be a reflection of your tastes and style. You can get great ideas for how to make your wedding more personal while still sticking to a theme from sites like Brides.

Mixing modern and rustic styles doesn't have to be hard. You can make your wedding as exciting and different as your love story if you pay attention to the little things and have a clear idea of what you want. Keep in mind that the best memories and the most beautiful photos you'll ever have are the ones that are both real and stylish.